It’s fairly easy to say yes to an opportunity than to an obligation…
Imagine being a college student who feels like studying certain subjects are “useless”. So he doesn’t study them at all.
Then one day, he had nothing to do (as if it was destiny.. ) ,so he decided to study the useless subject.
…DUN DUN DUUUN! *dramatic sound effect *
It turned out to be not so useless after all, what’s more he began to like it.
It’s like judging a book by its cover or hating someone because of their look..
My point is that, be more open minded.
The things you don’t like today , might be the things that you adore tomorrow.